Pick Your Brush: illustration of a toddler doing the activity

Pick Your Brush

from 14 months · 5 min · Everyday helper

What you need

  • two toothbrushes they could use
  • a smear of toothpaste

How to do it

  1. Hold up two toothbrushes and let your toddler choose which one is theirs tonight.
  2. Put a smear of paste on the one they picked.
  3. Let them start with it while you get your own brush ready.
  4. Finish their teeth with the same brush they chose.

Why it matters

Brushing is something that happens to a toddler whether they like it or not, so handing them one real decision about it changes how the next two minutes go.

What they're learning

Making a choice
One real decision inside a routine they don't control makes the rest of it easier to accept.
This one's mine
Knowing which brush is theirs is the start of the whole thing being theirs.
Having a go
A brush they picked is a brush they're readier to put in their mouth.

What to look for

Watch for them going for the same one every time. That's a preference, and it's worth honouring.

A tip

Both options need to be ones you're happy with, because whichever they pick is the one you're using.

Make it easier or harder

Easier: offer the same two brushes every night so the choice is familiar

Harder: let them choose and then fetch it themselves

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