Fairy Light Lie-down: illustration of a toddler doing the activity

Fairy Light Lie-down

from 12 months · 5-10 min · Quiet & calm

What you need

  • a string of plug-in fairy lights, already up high on a shelf or round a window
  • cushions and a blanket

How to do it

  1. Turn the big light off and the fairy lights on, then make a cosy spot with cushions a little way back from them.
  2. Lie down together on the cushions and look up at the twinkling lights.
  3. Point to the lights and whisper what you see: "twinkle", "light", "pretty".
  4. Sing "Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star" slowly and softly, then turn the lights off together.

Why it matters

Lying still in soft light with you close by is a gentle way to slow down a busy December day.

What they're learning

Settling
Soft light, a quiet voice and you close by help their body slow down.
Looking and pointing
Pointing at a light you name links the word to the thing, and shows you what they have noticed.
Listening to a song
A slow, familiar song is one they can join with a sound or a hand wave.

What to look for

Watch for their breathing slowing and their hand reaching for yours as they look.

A tip

Keep the lights and their cable up high and out of reach, a cushion's distance away: they are for looking at, not touching. Plug-in lights, or a battery pack with a screw-shut cover, only.

Make it easier or harder

Easier: hold them on your lap and look at the lights together for a minute

Harder: ask them to point to the light you name, near or far

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