Before We Eat: illustration of a toddler doing the activity

Before We Eat

from 16 months · 5 min · Everyday helper

What you need

  • soap
  • a hand towel

How to do it

  1. Before every meal, go to the sink together before anyone sits down.
  2. Same order each time: water on, soap, rub, rinse, dry.
  3. Dry hands, then straight to the table.
  4. Do it after coming in from outside too, and after any animals.

Why it matters

Handwashing sticks when it's attached to something that already happens every day, and meals come round often enough to build the habit without anyone having to remember it.

What they're learning

A steady routine
Tied to mealtimes, it happens several times a day without being a separate thing to organise.
What comes next
Sink, then table: a short sequence that makes sense to them.
Rubbing hands together
Frequent short practice beats occasional long practice.

What to look for

Watch for them heading to the sink when you start getting food ready.

A tip

Before eating, after the toilet or a nappy change, after animals, and when you come in. Those four cover most of what matters.

Make it easier or harder

Easier: do it at one meal a day until it's familiar

Harder: let them head to the sink when you say it's time to eat

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