Twinkle Star Hands: illustration of a toddler doing the activity

Twinkle Star Hands

from 12 months · 5 min · Quiet & calm

What you need

  • a big paper star stuck high on a window, or plug-in fairy lights already up high

How to do it

  1. Sit together on the floor facing the star or the fairy lights, with your toddler on your lap or beside you.
  2. Point to the star and say "star, twinkle" in a soft voice.
  3. Sing "Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star" slowly, opening and closing your hands like twinkling stars.
  4. Sing it again, slower and quieter, and help them twinkle their hands with yours.

Why it matters

Slow hand actions to a song they know give them a way to join in, and the quiet pace calms a busy day.

What they're learning

Copying actions
Opening and closing their hands with you is copying in time.
Joining in a song
A slow song they know well is one they can join with a hand or a sound.
Settling
A soft voice and a slow song help their body calm down.

What to look for

Watch for their hands opening and closing on their own as soon as you start to sing.

A tip

Fairy lights and their cable stay up high and out of reach, for looking at, not touching. Plug-in lights, or a battery pack with a screw-shut cover, only.

Make it easier or harder

Easier: hold their hands and twinkle them gently for them

Harder: stop before the last word of a line and see if they fill it in with a sound or a twinkle

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