Milk or Water?: illustration of a toddler doing the activity

Milk or Water?

from 18 months · 5 min · Everyday helper

What you need

  • two cups, one of milk and one of water

How to do it

  1. Hold up both cups and name each as you show it: "milk?" "water?"
  2. Wait and let them choose.
  3. Hand over the one they go for and name it again: "milk."
  4. Try the same with two snacks or two toys another day.

Why it matters

Getting a choice gives them a real reason to use a word, and hearing both names right before they choose gives them the words to use.

What they're learning

A reason to talk
Wanting one thing is the best reason to name it.
Hearing both words
Both names come just before they choose.
Making a choice
Choosing is something they can do for themselves.

What to look for

Watch for a sound or word along with the reach.

A tip

If a word comes out, however unclear, say it back clearly and add one more: "ball" becomes "big ball". Never ask them to repeat it.

Make it easier or harder

Easier: let them reach or point, and name what they chose

Harder: wait a little longer before handing it over

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