Hello on the Screen: illustration of a toddler doing the activity

Hello on the Screen

from 14 months · 5-10 min · Quiet & calm

What you need

  • a phone for the video call

How to do it

  1. Start the call with your toddler on your lap, facing the screen.
  2. Say a big hello to the person on the screen and wave.
  3. Let your toddler look, wriggle off or come and go. A screen's easy to walk away from.
  4. At the end, wave and say 'bye-bye' together before you hang up.

Why it matters

A face on a screen is close but can't come any closer, which makes it one of the gentlest ways for a wary toddler to practise a hello and a goodbye.

What they're learning

Waving hello and bye
A call has a clear start and a clear end, which is exactly where greetings go.
Keeping family close
Seeing relatives who live far away is how those faces stay familiar.
Names for people
'Hello, Nana' said to a face they know is a word tied firmly to a person.

What to look for

Watch for them waving back at the screen when the other person waves.

A tip

Ask the person on the other end to wave slowly and wait. A pause is what gives a toddler room to answer.

Make it easier or harder

Easier: keep it to just the bye-bye wave at the end

Harder: let them press the button to end the call after the wave

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