Copycat Chat: illustration of a toddler doing the activity

Copycat Chat

from 12 months · 5 min · Quiet & calm

What you need

  • a chair or the floor, sitting face to face

How to do it

  1. Sit face to face, close enough that they can see your mouth.
  2. Wait for them to make a sound, any sound: a "ba", a "da" or a squeal.
  3. Say the same sound straight back, with the same tune, then stop and wait.
  4. When they answer, copy that one too, and keep the chat going back and forth for as long as they like.

Why it matters

Taking turns with sounds is the shape of a conversation, and hearing their own babble come back tells them you are listening.

What they're learning

Taking turns
Their sound, then yours, then theirs: the back and forth of every chat.
Listening
Hearing their own sound come back makes them tune in to yours.
Mouth sounds
Playing with "ba" and "da" works the lips and tongue they talk with.

What to look for

Watch for them making a sound, then pausing and looking at you, waiting for your turn.

A tip

Leave a longer gap than feels natural. The pause is their turn to talk. Turn off music and screens first, so your voice is the one they hear.

Make it easier or harder

Easier: copy their sound with a big smile and a nod, and leave it there

Harder: change their sound a little, "ba" to "ba-ba", and see what comes back

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