Pick Your Snack: illustration of a toddler doing the activity

Pick Your Snack

from 36 months · 5-10 min · Everyday helper

What you need

  • two healthy choices, like an apple and a banana
  • a plate

How to do it

  1. Put two healthy choices out on the side, like an apple and a banana.
  2. Ask your child which one they'd like, and why.
  3. Let them fetch a plate, put their choice on it and carry it to where you eat.
  4. Ask them to fetch something for you too, and tell you which one you're having.

Why it matters

Choosing between two good things gives them a real say, and fetching it themselves makes snack their job.

What they're learning

Making a choice
Picking one of two is a small decision that's theirs.
Saying why
"The apple, because it's crunchy" is a reason in their own words.
Careful carrying
Taking a plate across the room without anything sliding off.

What to look for

Notice them giving a reason for their choice, like "apple, because it's crunchy".

A tip

Only offer choices you're happy with, so any answer is a good one. Cut grapes and cherry tomatoes lengthways.

Make it easier or harder

Easier: hold one in each hand and let them point and name it

Harder: offer three choices and ask them to pick one for each person in the family

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